I’ma Do Me, Thanks Though

1 Aug

I’ve been told that grown-ups befriend their exes. In a way that makes me feel like I’m a failure for not always choosing to do that.

But there are really good reasons to not be friends.

If you still have feels, if you still live in a world where you can imagine being in love with that person, then you should not be friends with your ex, no matter what anyone tells you. You don’t need to put yourself in the friend zone. That isn’t friendship, it’s torturing yourself. You shouldn’t put your friends in the uncomfortable situation of having to help you stay there. You shouldn’t be in a place where you’re unhappy just to make someone else feel better. Ever.

So be you. And be you without this person. Because that can be a happier, better you and that’s worth everything. At least for now.

One Response to “I’ma Do Me, Thanks Though”

  1. whatkatididthere August 2, 2017 at 10:15 am #

    Some you can stay friends with, some you can’t. Staying friends with all of them isn’t a sign of maturity in my book.

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