You can’t mourn the relationship you could have had. You can only mourn the relationship you did have.
You can say “he’s a great listener” all you want while you’re together. After all, he does give great advice. And he can memorize numbers for work.
But when it’s over then it’s time to look at the whole collection, together.
Is he a good listener? Maybe.
Did he listen to you? Maybe not.
It’s ok to hold both truths at the same time.
But holding on to what could have been won’t help anyone. And you have to be on team you.
this love went bad long ago.
it’s like the half-full expired container of milk in the fridge-
i know i should throw it out, but can’t stand
to see so much of a once good thing
go to waste.
– Lora Mathis [x]