I don’t like open-toed shoes.
I don’t like sneakers that make my feet look wide.
I don’t like mushrooms.
It hurts to have things between my toes.
It hurts to drink milk.
It hurts to smell coffee.
If you dislike a thing it’s not a promise. It doesn’t mean you’ll never like that thing. It means “I’ll try it again when I’m good and ready, but for now no thanks.”
For something to hurt means “No. Maybe one day if I’m ready, but until then, NO.”
If you dislike something, or are hurt by something, it’s your prerogative to avoid it in the future. No one should make you try to like it before you’re ready.
And if they make you try it then you can spit it out in their hands. You have my permission.