The other day the Yankee and were at a craft fair and he was looking over my shoulder at what I was holding when I spun around and told him he was makings me claustrophobic. He calmly smiled and moved away and I said “If any man treated me the way I treat you he would never see me again, and probably not his balls either.”
He laughed at me. He thought I was joking. I was not joking. There are things I say and do to the guys I date which would be immediate disqualifiers if the tables were turned.
But the truth is the guys I date don’t seem to mind (in fact they’re usually the qualities that most endear me to them) and I have no intention of changing them. So, that’s good.