TayTay’s position on this age old question seems to reside firmly on the I won’t do that to another lady side of the line but a few years ago a male friend of mine voiced a not-unreasonable alternative.
Your relationship is not my problem.
What a crazy notion. Your relationship is not my problem, it’s your problem. If you want to mess it up with me (or anybody else) then that’s your choice. I’m not going to drag you away from some other lady but I’m also not going to police your penis. You are a grown man with the ability to make choices and take responsibility for them. You shouldn’t need me to help you stay in your relationship and if you do then it seems to me you’ve got other issues to deal with.
So while I’m on the bandwagon with sisterhood I’m also on the bandwagon with men taking responsibility for their own actions even when horny. I don’t think that’s so unreasonable as I did back when I was in High School.